I recently moved to California. Court ordered child support, visitation, etc is Arizona. I filed to modify child support and one month later, ex files to increase visitation and get joint custody (I have sole). I have a text where, in response to me asking about his wages for calculations, he says "fine then you’ll be getting my paperwork for custody and visitation".

He has severe control issues and it seems clear that his intent is revenge but does the court care about his intent? I worry about his ability to care for her medical issues (among other things) and he wants to take her for a week at a time during breaks. HELP!
Let me clarify, I received permission from the court and child’s father to move. Furthermore, I fly the child out one weekend a month and he has the ability to come see child once a month and does not. This is what was agreed upon. I moved for work.